Every once in awhile, reality seems to strike in a surprise moment. I'm sure you have had these experiences. Last night, I had one as well.
My friends, Nate and Pat, and I had just parted after going to a bar for the night. I was walking down one of the most modern streets in Santiago--surrounded by multinational banks, corporate headquarters, high-rise condos, and gourmet restaurants. There were a few people out (it was past 1 am), but everyone generally keeps a good amount of space around them late at night. I walked past a young woman; she was probably in her late twenties or thirties, dressed casually, and clearly not in a rush. I would have walked right past had she not said hello and asked where I was going. I slowed down and told her the street where my bus was going to come. Her face brightened a little, and she said that was where she was going as well. We began to walk and talk together.
She introduced herself as Sandra and began to ask me the usual questions--where I am from, how old am I, am I studying at a university in Chile--among others. She commented that she was from Peru and missed her family there. I agreed and said that I missed my girlfriend as well. This seemed to grab her attention, and she asked me more questions about Christine. One of the oddest ones was if I was faithful to her. And then the light bulb went off in my head.
At this point, we had passed the street where she had said she was going, and although I continued to talk to her, I began to look for my bus stop. I got the feeling that there was more to our conversation than I had previously realized. We came to one of the stops and I politely tried to end the conversation. Before she walked away, she looked me in the eye and asked if I had ever been with an "extranjera" - a foreigner. I calmly said no and goodnight, and I turned towards the curb. She walked on down the street.
Was she a prostitute? A scared Peruvian woman? I do not pretend to know. And I'd rather not make the assumption. However, I was struck with a unique reality check. Never have I been confronted with a situation quite like this one. I still haven't decided how to feel about it--sad, scared, lucky? In Santiago, there are so many realities that I've never really opened my eyes to. Clearly, it's time to open my eyes to the good situations and the bad.
Chao.
An Italian Lunch
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